te veo

My friend Dionne just shared this letter with me. She is a teacher at a school primarily composed of under-privileged kids, and she was moved to help raise funds for Heartline Haiti. I love this story of children helping other children, and what they learned about themselves:


Woodcrest Elementary School is a small school of about 500 students, located in one of the roughest parts of Fullerton-- the barrio so-to-speak . We are a predominantly Latino school. We weren't sure how a fund drive would fare in our community where involvement is dormant (at best) and especially during such rough economic times, but our Student Council was motivated to give it their best shot.

As I mentioned last week, our Student Council decided to start fundraising for Haitian orphans last Thursday and ended the campaign today. The goal was set at $1000-- a modest amount, but when 77% of our student population lives below the poverty line, $1000 is a big deal.

After last Friday's $860 tally, we realized that with four days to go in our fund drive, we'd easily exceed our goal, so on Monday morning we upped the ante and set a new goal to raise $1500 by Thursday. To our amazement, students responded to the challenge nearly doubling Friday's intake.

By Tuesday of this week students raised $1600. I was blown away by the stirring of our small, underprivileged, community's capacity for taking action.

Never in our history of fundraising efforts, have we raised that much money in such a short amount of time. NEVER! This outpouring of support for Haitian orphans was unprecedented.

Today we've raised a little over $2700 dollars in funds for Heartline Ministries and donations are still flowing in. Our preschoolers proudly drug in a manilla folder full of coins they collected. One little boy reported that he wanted to donate his money because he wanted to help the children. It was such an awe inspiring experience for me-- ordinary kids doing an extra ordinary thing.

My sixth graders have a phrase they like to use with each other: "Te veo." It's a slang term that literally means "I see you", but there is so much more meaning packed into that tiny phrase.

They say it when they feel the need to empathize with what another person is experiencing. One student might use the phrase when another shares that his dad just got deported. When the phrase is used, it denotes a sense of solidarity or a collective struggle.

My students don't have much to offer, they may be (literally) scraping together their few coins to help the Haitian children, and our donation may not be as impressive as some of the larger donations, but they gave out of need. Which is to say, "Haiti, we may not have much to give, but we will not let our own needs blind us from seeing yours. 'Te veo'."



Students pictured from left to right(bottom row): Adolfo Flores, Odalis Renteria, Brianna Segura, and Adiel Morelos; (middle row) Mrs. Dionne Sincire (ASB Advisor), Matt Correa, Ambeer Galicia, Taylor Osmus, Rebecca Tell, Ashlea Grabau, and
Mr. Ken Zeh (ASB Advisor); (top row) Kayla Palmar, Alicia Morales, Ariane Ochoa, Attabik Shah, Destanee Lamar-Muir.

TALK BACK: family tv time

I was talking with a group of friends recently about how our family grew up watching tv shows together on certain evenings. This was before the days of Tivo, when we watched things in real time. We always looked forward to "Cosby Night" and "Growing Pains Night", when we would pop popcorn and sit and watch together.

Our society seems to have fragmented tv time now. Shows do not seem as family-focused. Children have tv's in their room and can watch on-demand. It's not unusual for any given home to have kids watching tv in a bedroom while adults watch tv in another room altogether.

How do you balance this? Are there shows your family actually enjoys together?

Pizza Party


Maybe I should blame it on the Superbowl, but I am all about pizza right now. I tried this amazing recipe from Real Simple this week (see the picture on right!) and is it ever mmmm mmmm good.


We do pizza a couple times a month and we rotate between buying the frozen pizza from Trader Joe's, and the whole wheat dough from Trader Joe's and making our own. My kids LOVE when we make the pizza ourselves because I give them each their own dough and let them make it themselves. It takes a lot longer (I have to almost tie my hands behind my back so that I don't take over. It is painful to watch the spreading of sauce look that hard to do.)

One of my favorite ways to make the homemade kind is super simple and so, so good. You could use the veggies you love and vary the spices to what you love as well.

Ingredients:

pizza dough
olive oil
diced garlic, 3 cloves minimum
salt and pepper
thinly sliced red peppers
thinly sliced red onion
diced roma tomatoes
finely chopped fresh basil and oregano

1. Prepare dough as recommended.
2. After dough has risen, put a bit of olive oil in the bottom of a baking sheet and spread it around evenly so that there is a light coating.
3. Spread the pizza dough across the bottom of the baking sheet, aiming to spread it thinly across the pan. It may or may not make it all the way across the bottom of the pan. No worries.
4. drizzle the dough with olive oil. Add salt and pepper to taste (I know you cannot taste it while preparing, so you have to take a guess based on your salt/pepper preferences.)
5. Spread out the diced garlic and with the back of a spoon, rub the salt pepper and garlic into the olive oil.
6. layer the rest of the toppings.

Bake according to instructions on the dough, and take out when crust is golden (if you like a more crisp crust, leave it in a bit longer).

We love to dip this pizza in marinara sauce or ranch dressing.

This could be a great appetizer as well.

SUNDAY GIVEAWAY: JackCards.com




JackCards.com is an innovative new website that makes getting greeting cards sent out- on time!- a total breeze. We love this time-saving and cost effective idea! Offering thousands of great paper cards, appropriate for all recipients and occasions, Jack Cards does all of the organizing and tracking for you.










You pick the cards, schedules the dates, and when the time arrives, Jack Cards will mail you your card to sign and send- allowing you to include a handwritten, personal touch. But the best part is that the cards come stamped, addressed, and ready to go! You can even upload contacts right from your address book or Facebook account. How cool is this for busy moms?!
Membership is free and cards start at just $2.50. This week, one lucky reader will win $15.00 worth of cards!

To be entered, leave us a comment answering the following question:

"How efficient are you at getting greeting cards mailed out on time?"

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[this giveaway will be closed on Saturday at 11 PM, & the winner will be announced next Sunday!]



And now for the winners of last week's RideMakerz giveaway:
Car kit #1 - Sarah
Car kit #2 - Katie P
gift certificate - Amy Bell
gift certificate - Jill


Congratulations! Shoot us an email by 2/14 to mamagiveaways(at)gmail(dot)com with your prize in the subject line, and we will hook you up! Keep checking back for more great giveaways!

Forever 21, Why Do You Hate Me?

Dear Sir ('cause I know a woman would not be behind this):

I have an issue with the sizing at your store. I know, I know. The name of your store should be a warning. I'm not 21 - not even close. I know that my needs could be better met in a store called "Forever Mid-Thirties". Or "Despereately Clinging to My Youth". But still, your budget prices and sassy fashions beckon me in again and again.

During my last visit to your store, I found an adorable asian-print dress that would be a great number for an upcoming dinner. I grabbed it in a size LARGE, because I've been to your store before. I know that I am a medium-sized gal according to the folks at Gap and Old Navy, but in your store, I'm a large. I've made my peace with that. Until today.

I tried on the dress. I could barely get in on. I almost needed assistance getting it back off. This dress was so tight that any thoughts of moving or sitting while wearing it would be disastrous. This dress did not fit me for dirt.

Which leads me to believe that, according to your store, I AM AN EXTRA-LARGE.

I sheepishly ask the dressing room person for the dress in an XL. Oh wait . . . you don't even carry that size.

Now. I am an average-sized girl. I usually hover between a size 8 and a size 10. Yes, I could lose a few or 15. But I'm finding it hard to believe that, along the spectrum of sizes and body types in America, that this is the largest size you can offer. That your staff has decided that someone my size is an extra-large person.

Let me suggest that you consider changing the name of your store to Forever 12. Because that's the only age group that can comfortably fit into your clothing.

Insanity.

"The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over,
and expecting different results."
- Albert Einstein

By this definition, I am insane. Nutso. Crazy. Because, for real, there are certain things that I absolutely abhor and am constantly pledging to change, and yet, I do the same things over and over. I think that sometimes I do literally expect different results from the same activity. As if there will be something magical that happens if I simply complain enough about something, it will change.

A great example is that I am very much not a morning person. My brain does not officially wake up until 9 AM. I may be up and moving, but I am not thinking clearly. Coffee helps, but if I was a surgeon, all my surgeries would be scheduled post 9 AM. So, every morning, my bed swallows me and I snooze and snooze and snooze until I absolutely HAVE to jump out of bed to rush to get the kids off to school. My morning is frantic, frazzled and chaotic. It can sometimes (often) end up with me losing my "it's so good to see you, my lovely children" sunny disposition, and create the cattle prodding frustrated mom who is rushing her kids to the car. I HATE THIS! My kids are up early. They read books in bed until their light clicks on with the timer I have set up to maximize my sleep time. It is not their fault we are running late. I also hate it because I grew up in a serial "running late" household. I remember my siblings and I sitting in the car, ready to go. Waiting for mom. Waiting. Waiting. Still waiting.

So, nearly every day I make the vow as we race to the car - "Tomorrow, we will be ready earlier." And by we, I really mean I.

But, HOW will we get their earlier if I don't put my desire into action?

Pretty basic concept, right? But, how many of us are held back in our insanity?

Whining kids
Lackluster fitness level
Unhealthy eating habits
Unbalanced budget
Finding ourselves "checked out" in our parenting
Spending too much time online reading about other people's lives, rather than engaging in our own


I am hereby committing to take some baby steps in this, mamas. Action. Changing my doing so that my results will be different tomorrow.

I have my alarm set earlier tomorrow. I am going to bed earlier than usual tonight. And, I have told my kids that if mom is not up by a certain time, that they can pour cold water on me. That would mean I would have to change my sheets. Now, that would be insane.

TALK BACK: unexpected expenses

Parenting is expensive. And not always in the ways that you expect. Sure, diapers, clothes, food . . . all that adds up. But it's the stuff they BREAK that just sinks my stomach a little.

Recently I found my dauughter with three of my necklaces hanging out of her mouth in a tangled ball. So tangled that they had to be discarded. Last year, she broke the Shift key on my laptop, so I get to capitalize with one hand when I type. We have had two kids flush a toy down the toilet, requiring us to hire a plumber and replace the entire toilet. TWICE. Each of my children have broken our DVD player on seperate occasions, and last week I found a Shrek doll in the VCR.



I'm keeping a tally. This will all be paid off once they are working adults.


How about you? What unexpected things have your kids added to the budget?

Very Veggie Pasta Sauce


This is sort of the lazy mama version of making your own sauce from scratch, and it allows you to get a hefty serving of veggies into your kiddos. Kicks the nutritional value up a notch.


Ingredients:
1 white onion, diced
3 cloves garlic, diced
1/2 pound lean ground turkey
1 can stewed diced tomatoes (i use no added sodium)
1 head of broccoli, finely diced
2 sweet bell peppers (red, yellow or orange), diced
2 carrots, diced
1 jar of favorite organic pasta sauce

1. Saute onion and garlic in a couple tablespoons of olive oil. Add turkey and brown completely.
2. Add all the veggies and saute. Season with a little salt and pepper to taste.
3. Pour stewed tomatoes and jar of pasta sauce into crock pot, and then add your turkey & veggie mixture. Stir thoroughly and cook on low until ready to serve over pasta of your choice.
*I like to toss a couple bay leaves into the sauce while it cooks for added flavor.



Sunday GIVEAWAY: RIDEMAKERZ $50 Giftcard or Car Set


RIDEMAKERZ is a fabulous out of the box option for kids who have an appreciation for cars. It basically takes the "build-a-bear" concept, but allows the child to build a car from scratch. They choose the body, the wheels, the rims, the decals, and whatever extras they want to add to their "ride".


RIDEMAKERZ offers the in store experience, an option to build your ride online, or pre-made kits that can be purchased and assembled at home. The kit comes with the tools needed and the process either way is designed to minimize frustration and delight the builder. One of the things I liked the most about RIDEMAKERZ was that you can keep the car at the price point that fits your budget. You can go for bells and whistles and add a remote controlled aspect, or you can keep it simple and go with the free wheelin' style. Another added bonus - once you have made your initial purchase, you can continue to add accessories or even other car bodies down the road for a lot less than going in and building an entirely new car (incentives for good behavior). I love that this gets kids building and constructing, and it is a great activity to do as a family.

This is one of those gifts that you cannot go wrong with. Whether you give a gift card or a kit, or take your child in for an afternoon of building, you will not be disappointed. This is definitely a toy that will stand up to a lot of play - they are built to handle a lot of action. And, don't think that this is only a toy that boys will love. My daughter was all about her sporty pink car with the heart and flower decals and metal heart grill accessories.

This week we will be giving away 4 prizes: 2 $50 gift cards that can be used in a RIDEMAKERZ store or online, and 2 kits that will allow the winner to build a ride at home.

To be entered, leave us a comment answering the following question:

"If you could choose any 'ride' to drive right now, what would your dream ride be?"

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[this giveaway will be closed on Saturday at 11 PM, & the winner will be announced next Sunday!]


And now, for the winners of last week's giveaway:
(((Kelly)))
(((knotaway)))


Congratulations! Shoot us an email by 2/7 to mamagiveaways(at)gmail(dot)com with your prize in the subject line, and we will hook you up! Keep checking back for more great giveaways!

Mama Love

... We LOVED the great ideas from you mamas on how to break up the yucky weather doldrums. If you have never tried Tegan & Tage's cornstarch and water tip, try it. You kids will be in gooey heaven.


... We love the cute notepads over at Pikme Paper. They are sold in sets of 2 (one for you and a friend perhaps). You choose the design from their gallery of watercolor images (the cherry tree is my fave right now).

... After a holiday season marked by (serious) overindulgence of the sweeter things in life, I am LOVING feeling the burn with the KettleWorx work out system. It is super mama-friendly as it is a 3x per week work out plan that is 20 minutes long. Perfect for the busy mom trying to fit exercise into the nooks and crannies of her day. I am 2 weeks in and can already feel it working.

... Kelly's post over at Love Well is an honest reflection of the pull of parenting little ones on your marriage. It was good to be reminded of the importance of investing in one's marriage.

... As a mother to a child who gets car sick in a violent way (I'll spare you the details), I love Queasy Pops that are formulated with essential oils and natural ingredients (sweetened with brown rice syrup and evaporated cane juice) for kiddos. I remember seeing the Prego Pops line after I was done being pregnant. We have our stash tucked safely in the glove box of the car.

... I recently discovered Piggy Paint. It is a nail polish product that does not contain formaldehyde, toluene, phthalates, biphenyl A, ethyl acetate and acetone... and made in the USA! It was developed by a stay at home mama after her daughter spilled a glob of traditional Solvent-based nail polish onto a foam plate and she watched the polish bubble and eat a hole through the plate. Her tag line for her piggy paint product line is "Natural As Mud". We love that this product will not harm our kiddos' little "piggies" or the environment.

... The journal enthusiast in me absolutely loves the line of "topical" journals by Journals Unlimited. As one of those moms who always thought she would remember every funny thing her children said, and now can't, I am a huge fan of the "Out of the Mouths of Babes" mini journal. It is small enough to fit in your diaper bag or purse, and allows you to quickly jot down the date and moment that has your tickled your fancy. This is a great gift idea for a new parent or grandparent! I also love the idea of a gratitude journal or traveler's journal.


Fixing a leak.



How is it that telemarketers know just when we will be sitting down for dinner? How about the gazillion credit card applications and other junk mail items I get daily? Don't these people know about the "green" movement?

Here are some tips for fixing those pesky "information leaks":

  • Say "buh bye" to telemarketers. Register your phone numbers on the FTC's Do Not Call list. Go to donotcall.gov, or call 888-382-1222 from the number you want to register. (If you register through the website, be sure to click on a link in the confirmation e-mail you receive.) Most telemarketers should stop calling once you've been in the registry for 31 days. Note to self :: You need to re-register your numbers every five years.
  • Lower your risk for credit theft. You know all those offers for credit or insurance that declare you have been "pre-approved". Identity thieves may intercept these and, with the right additional information, apply for credit under your name. Call 888-567-8688 to opt out. With a single request, you can halt pre-approved offers of credit or insurance that are based on information from the consumer credit-reporting companies: Equifax, Experian, TransUnion, and Innovis.
  • Stop the paper trail. You ordered one throw pillow on clearance, and now your mailbox is visited daily by the catalogue fairy. Opt out of catalog mailing lists through Abacus, which compiles a database shared by catalog and publishing companies. [write to Abacus, P.O. Box 1478, Broomfield, CO 80038. Include the full name of everyone in your house who should stop receiving unsolicited catalogs, your current address, and your previous address if you've moved recently.]
Got any tips for putting the "kabash" on any other annoying habits of the modern-media world?

Making a Time Capsule

It's the beginning of a new decade, so my kids and I decided to make a time capsule together. I thought it would be a fun project that they could open in ten years when they are 15, 13, and 10, and look back on some memories from their preschool days. In the year 2000, I bought a time capsule kit that my husband and I completed together. It was before we had kids, and we wrote that we couldn't open it until 2015. Oh, how tempted I was to open it early! But I know it will be more fun (and mean more to the kids) in five years. So now, we will have one to open in 2015 and another to open in 2020!

Our 2000 time capsule was a snazzy store-bought version:


But for this year, I just purchased a plastic container from the hardware store. I filled it with some of the smaller memorabilia we had around the house. I put in their preschool pictures, a shot with santa, Jafta's first team shirt, India's birthday pom poms, Karis's ultrasound pictures, and a copy of a shutterfly book I made for Keanan. Along with some other odds and ends, I also added an old cell phone, because I thought it would be funny to see how the technology has changed.


I also interviewed the kids to try to get a fun snapshot of what their interests are at this point in their life. I asked about favorite foods, favorite movies, and favorite pastimes. Here are a few of my favorite answers from Jafta:

What are your favorite songs?

"Beatle, the Backyardigans song . . . I used to like Do You Know Your Enemy (Green Day) but not anymore, because now I like a few more songs better. Like this song that goes like this: (starts humming the bass part of a White Stripes song). Bam bam, bam bam bam BAM BAM."

What are your favorite foods?

"Medieval Times food, tortilla soup, and sushi, but not the spicy part where you put your finger in your mouth, but I’m gonna need to think about this more."


What are your favorite movies?

"Transformers (he has never seen this), Star Wars (never seen it), Spiderman (nope, never seen it). And this one movie called How to Teach Dogs. it’s about a guy that, like, turns into an alien. And then there’s a guy that, like, turns into a dog. What a funny part." (I believe this to be a completely made up movie)

"And Scary Vine. It has skeletons and vampires and mummies. And wolves. And coyotes. Ow-oooooooohhhhhhhh!" (I also believe this to be a fictional movie).

"And Wobble Snow. That's where penguins dive into the water and there’s like a huge kind of whale that’s called a killer whale. There’s, like, snow that cracks and turns into a water. And then there’s a tiger that fights the penguin and then the killer whale eats them. It swims totally fast. It’s very disturbing. And there’s a type of fish that’s called an eagle fish. It has two sharp knives and it kills the penguins so they swim very fast and they go all the way down under water and make this noise: woierowier. It’s a funny part. You’re gonna wanna see this movie. And the like this guy that throws a ball at the penguins and he hits the water in his big army boat, with Lego guys underneath."

Okay, my guy is kind of a fibber. But I think it will be hilarious to read these answers to him when he is a teenager!

Have you ever done a time capsule with your kids? What items did you include?

Talk Back: It's raining, it's pouring, the old man is snoring



So, I know we are utterly spoiled with typically having very mama-friendly weather. I know. But, the last 10 days have been unusually wet and is making for some pretty stir crazy kids and frazzled mommies.

Today we want your best tips and tricks of the mama trade for how you survive yucky weather. What are your "go to" indoor activities? What do you do to break up the time inside? How do you keep your kids from bouncing off the walls?


Creole Chicken & Rice

In the light of Kristen's son Kembert arriving from Haiti (hip, hip hooray!!!!), we are re-posting this amazing recipe!


Thank you for your prayers and support! You can see the coverage of Kembert's arrival on ABC here and in the OC Register here.

We have a fun, international recipe today that I've stolen from Christine's blog, which she adapted from a missionary to Haiti. It's a traditional Haitian meal and also really healthy.

4 chicken breasts
2 large tablespoons of tomato paste
4 cups of chicken broth
2 large chicken bouillon cubes
1 onion
1 green pepper
Thyme and Parsley tied together in a little bunch
2 cloves of garlic
1 leek
1 tsp of salt

cooked rice of choice

Cover chicken with about 6 cups of water, 2 bouillon cubes, and cook. Save broth for sauce. (when the chicken was done, I sat it aside and shredded it up). Mash together 2 or 3 garlic cloves, 1 small leek, and 1 tsp salt. (I ran all of this, including green pepper, through my little food processor - the kids will eat anything they cannot identify). Take 1/2 cup of of the broth and put into sauce pan and bring to a boil, add garlic/leek mixture and green pepper, cook 3 minutes, add tomato paste and cook for 3 to 5 minutes. Don't burn. Add 3 1/2 cups of chicken broth, parsley and thyme and hot pepper. Bring to boil and cook for 30 to 45 minutes until it starts to boil down a little bit and becomes less watery looking. Spoon over the rice.

SUNDAY GIVEAWAY: Night Owl Paper Goods calendar



Night Owl Papergoods is devoted to creating unique calendars, letterpress cards and other eco-friendly products. With a passion for fine craftsmanship and detail, the Night Owl line has quickly gained recognition for their one-of-a-kind approach to color, texture and pattern.



We think that their sustainably harvested birch wood calendars are fresh, modern and will give your desk instant flair. They manufacture their products using very little power and no water, and all products are made by hand in the USA. Visit their site to check out their entire line - we think you will give a hoot!

Night Owl Paper Goods is kindly offering our readers 10% off all orders containing at least one LOVE card, placed before the end of January! Simply select your LOVE cards, {in addition to calendars, journals and any other goodies you'd like} and enter the coupon code "mama" at check-out.

We will be giving away 2 calendars to 2 lucky mamas! Please answer the following question to be entered in this giveaway:

Are you a night owl or a morning person? When the night owl in you comes out, what are your favorite late night activities to get lost in while the rest of your house is peacefully slumbering?

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[this giveaway will be closed on Saturday at 11 PM, & the winner will be announced next Sunday!]



And now, for the winner of last week's giveaway:
(((Stephanie)))


Congratulations! Shoot us an email by 1/31 to mamagiveaways(at)gmail(dot)com with your prize in the subject line, and we will hook you up! Keep checking back for more great giveaways!

Edible Play Dough

I saw this great post today on Make & Takes and had to share with our readers. My suggestion is NOT to do this activity on a day when you are craving sweets. I love that this is edible, because no matter what my sneaky kids eat the play dough they play with. The store bought kind is salty and nasty, but they eat it. Why they will sneak little bites of that, but refuse to eat bites of their dinner that certainly taste better is beyond me.

Play Dough You Will Actually Want To Eat

(from Make & Takes)

- 1 cup peanut butter
- 1/2 cup honey
- 2 cups powdered sugar

Mix ingredients in a bowl and you’re done! Store in an airtight container or plastic baggie with air sucked out of the bag. (Quick tip: Spray your 1/2 cup with oil before measuring your honey and the honey will pour much easier.)

This recipe had a great consistency! Of course, the more you play with it the softer it gets, but it was not sticky and it was just what I was expecting peanut butter playdough to be. The taste was okay. Any kid would think it was delicious. I thought it was a little too sweet, but again…it’s really for PLAYING, so it was perfect!


Talking to kids about tragedy


Talking to children about tragedy is a job most parents would love to avoid. If only our children did not need to hear about things like this week’s devastating earthquake in Haiti. But of course, they do hear. And they are full of questions: Could this happen to me? What’s going to happen to the children? Can I do anything to help the children I see on TV?

World Vision US, a Christian humanitarian relief organization with hundreds of staff on the ground in Haiti, suggests eight ways to make a tough job a little bit easier.

1. Start by listening.

Find out what your kids already know. You can then respond in an age-appropriate way. The aim is not to worry them with the devastating details, but to protect them from misinformation they may have heard from friends or disturbing images they may have seen on television.

2. Provide clear, simple answers.

Limit your answer to the question asked and use simple language.

3. If you don't know the answer, admit it

If your child asks a question that you can't answer, tell them so, and then do some research to try and help them sort it out. If they ask “Why did this have to happen?” don't be afraid to say “I don't know.” If you are part of a faith community, the reassurance offered there can be invaluable in helping your child sort through the awful truth that awful things happen.

4. Follow media reports or online updates privately.

Young children in particular are easily traumatized, and seeing or hearing about the horrifying details of the quake are more than they can cope with. Adults, too, should ensure they are dealing with their own emotions by talking to others, so they can continue to respond well to their children’s need.

5. Concentrate on making them feel safe.

When tragedies occur, children wonder if the same event could happen in their hometown. If it was an act of nature that could not be repeated in your area, tell children that. Placing themselves in the situations of victims is not all bad—it is a sign of empathy, an essential life skill, but watch for signs of excessive worrying.

6. Give children creative outlets.

Some children may not be prepared to speak about what they have heard, but may find drawing or other creative activities helpful to deal with their emotions and stress. Their drawings can be helpful starting points for conversation.

7. Model involvement and compassion.

Tell your child that, as a family, you will be helping the people in Haiti by giving a donation to a reputable charity such as World Vision.

8. Give your child a chance to be involved.

Being involved in the solution will help relieve some of their anxiety. Invite them to contribute to the family’s gift by giving something out of their piggy bank.

I tried.


Believe me, I tried. All day on Sunday. All day today. I tried to think of a good recipe to post. Monday is our "mama cooks" day. We like to share the tasty, healthy, kid-friendly recipes we have come across.

But, who can possibly think of food when all you can think of is ...

[Mark & Kristen's son, Kembert (aka "Keanan") in Haiti, being held in this photo by Diane Sawyer : watch the clip here]

and this ...


[Mark & Kristen on CNN, pleading for people to rally for Humanitarian Parole for the orphans in Haiti.]

and, this ...




now, I want you to imagine that in that video, instead of Mark & Kristen holding their son who is now miles away from them in a demolished country, instead of that being them, it's you. And, that child with those gigantic, beautiful eyes, that is YOUR child. And, though you love him more than you feel your heart can possibly hold, your love cannot keep him safe where he is right now. Imagine trying to sleep in your warm bed with your other 3 children down the hall.

Not complete.
Somethings missing.

We need your help. There are countless other families who are hoping, praying, and fighting to get THEIR children home as well. Please call your state representatives as soon as you can on Tuesday morning and plead for them to support Humanitarian Parole for the orphans in Haiti.


"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" - Martin Luther King Jr.


To see an update from Kristen, go here.

SUNDAY GIVEAWAY: sarah + abraham





sarah + abraham is an online boutique specializing in children's stationary, birth announcements, and invitations, founded by talented designer Sara Tams. You will love the unique style, that is classic and simple, combining both vintage and modern inspirations. Orders are completely customized, and turnaround time is amazingly fast! We think the handy "mom calling cards" are especially fun.








sarah + abraham products make great gift ideas for babies, children, moms, and teachers... and just in time for Valentine's Day, Sara is offering a set of 24 adorable personalized valentines & coordinating return address labels to one lucky winner.







To be entered, leave us a comment answering the following question:

How important to you is the old-fashioned, hand-written thank you note?

How to earn additional entries:

1.) Become a follower on our blog (publicly) and leave another comment (or let us know if you already are).

2.) Subscribe to the Mama Memo by clicking here and leave another comment (or let us know if you already are).

3.) Blog about this giveaway- with a link back to here. Post YOUR blog entry first and then the comment.

4.) Add the Mama Manifesto button to your sidebar.

5.) Follow us on Twitter AND Tweet about this giveaway. TWEET- "Giveaway- win a set of 24 @sarahandabraham personalized valentines & return address labels from @MamaManifesto. Enter at mamamanifesto.com"

6.) Become a fan of Mama Manifesto on Facebook by clicking the button on the left!


[this giveaway will be closed on Saturday at 11 PM, & the winner will be announced next Sunday!]



And now, for the winner of last week's giveaway:
(((Lyndsea Tim Tim)))


Congratulations! Shoot us an email by 1/24 to mamagiveaways(at)gmail(dot)com with your prize in the subject line, and we will hook you up! Keep checking back for more great giveaways!

Help for Haiti

The earthquake that took place in Haiti earlier this week hit incredibly close to home. Kristen Howerton, one of our writers and co-founders of MM was there visiting her son she is in the process of adopting. The devastation is unimaginable. It is being compared to Hurricane Katrina, but without any of the infrastructure to begin the clean up process. Many people will be without food, water, etc.


We can help.

  • Money is going to be the most useful way to tangibly help out. There are countless organizations that will be working to help re-build Haiti, but we are promoting World Wide Village simply because Kristen has worked with them, trusts them whole-heartedly and we know that every dollar donated will go to the people who need it most. We also would encourage you to consider donating to Heartline Minstries as they need to re-build their orphanage and birthing facilities.
  • Pray. Continue to pray for people to be found alive in the collapsed buildings. For peace in the midst of the chaos. For people to remain calm and cool-headed as things get worse and water and food are scarce. For the children who are frightened. Even pray for the little things - that people would be able to sleep without fear.
  • Contact your state representatives, and express your desire for the Haitian children in process of being adopted to receive Humanitarian Parole. It is absolutely absurd that there are families in the USA waiting to bring their children home, and those same children are in the midst of chaos without clean drinking water. Take a few moments to express this desire!


One Little Word


One of the mamas that we love is Ali Edwards, an amazing artist! She recently blogged about choosing "one little word", a word to focus on, mediate on, and reflect upon as we go about our daily lives.

Can you identify a single word that sums up what you want for yourself in 2010?


Ali Edwards says:
It can be something tangible or intangible. It could be a thought or a feeling or an emotion. It can be singular or plural. The key is to find something that has personal meaning for you. This is not your mother's word or your spouse's word or your child's word - this is YOUR word.

One little word can have big meaning in your life if you allow yourself to be open to the possibilities. And here's one thing that is totally interesting: sometimes a word will pop into your brain and it will not make any sense to you right now. Give it some time. Let it percolate a bit. I have often found that our hearts speak to us in very unique ways. Maybe this is a word you need to hear but just aren't ready for it yet. Again, be open to the possibilities.



What is your word, mamas? Find a place to display it to be reminded daily of what this could mean for 2010! If you blog about it, share the link in the comments so we can watch your journey unfold... If you want to take your one little word into action, you can go the extra mile and explore it with this "word of the year discovery tool".

My word for 2010 ...

proactive

News from Haiti

I want to update you all with the little information I know about Haiti and what is going on with Kristen & her baby Karis. We are asking that you continue to pray! Please pray that Kristen and Karis will be able to get home as soon as possible. The situation in Haiti is not good. There are bodies lining the streets (risk of disease spreading soon from these bodies decomposing), the palace has collapsed, there are many who are seriously wounded, and fear of diesel and food rations beginning soon. Kristen's baby is sick and has been vomiting for days. Flights are grounded and rumors are that many flights may not be operating again until February. We are looking into any and every option in order to get Kristen and her baby to a US city. If you have contacts that could help, please let us know.


To read Kristen's detailed account of what is going on, go to www.thehowertons.blogspot.com.
You can also follow the tweets that Troy Livesay is posting, which are being used in major news feeds because it is one of the only ways people can communicate.

Please pray. Email your friends, sisters, moms, dads, brothers, co-workers. Pray for the nation of Haiti. Pray for the wounded. Pray for relief. And, please join us in praying that Karis and Kristen would be home safe and sound with their "United States" family soon.

Thank you.

pray today

Please pray today for the nation of Haiti. There was a massive earthquake on Tuesday which has rocked the nation to its core. Also, please pray for Kristen, Mama Manifesto co-founder, as she is in Haiti right now visiting her son in the orphanage where he currently lives. Please pray for the safety of the staff, children, and of course Kristen and her children that are there with her.


We will update you as soon as we have news from Kristen.

Thank you, mamas!

{I have been driven many times to my knees by the overwhelming conviction that I had absolutely no other place to go. -- Abraham Lincoln}

SUNDAY GIVEAWAY: Alice.com

We are excited to introduce Alice.com, an online marketplace designed to help save you time and money on many household essentials. Alice makes it easy to automate and manage your purchases, featuring competitive prices, free shipping, and budgeting tools. We especially love the feature that allows you to search exclusively for green & organic products.

Alice is offering a $50 credit to one lucky mama. To be entered, you must first create a free account here, then leave us a comment answering the following question:

What household product does your family go through the fastest?

Additionally, once you have created an account, feel free to take advantage of the Refer-A-Friend rewards program for even more savings!



How to earn additional entries:

1.) Become a follower on our blog (publicly) and leave another comment (or let us know if you already are).

2.) Subscribe to the Mama Memo by clicking here and leave another comment (or let us know if you already are).

3.) Blog about this giveaway- with a link back to here. Post YOUR blog entry first and then the comment.

4.) Add the Mama Manifesto button to your sidebar.

5.) Follow us on Twitter AND Tweet about this giveaway. TWEET- "Giveaway- win a $50 credit to online marketplace, Alice.com from @MamaManifesto. Enter at mamamanifesto.com"

6.) Become a fan of Mama Manifesto on Facebook by clicking the button on the left!


[this giveaway will be closed on Saturday at 11 PM, & the winner will be announced next Sunday!]



And now, for the winner of our Veggie Tales giveaway:

(((Donna)))


Congratulations! Shoot us an email by 1/17 to mamagiveaways(at)gmail(dot)com with your prize in the subject line, and we will hook you up! Keep checking back for more great giveaways!

mama love


We love the buzz of the New Year. Fresh Starts. Clean Slates. Even in our parenting. 2010 is looking bright, mamas.

We love Julie's "meh" post about daily life. I think we can all identify with this feeling. Sometimes blogging can bring pressure to be creative, funny, inspired, and there are many moments in the motherhood journey that are not all that creative, funny, inspired. Feels good to know we are not alone in our meh-ness. (It is totally a word.)

We love Isabel olivier's new fashion line. Long a favorite brand for moms-to-be, Isabel Olivier is branching out of the maternity niche and designing gorgeous, sophisticated pieces for all women. Their dresses feature luxurious fabrics and flattering draping for a night out on the town.

We love reader Jen's honest post about how motherhood affects our desire for physical touch. Can you relate?

We love Pirate's Booty! It's a healthy snack that most kids really like, and they have so many fun flavors. We just got to try their new pizza flavor, and my kids were hooked! It's got a great zing, and it's gluten and dairy free, for kids with allergies.